Change is rarely easy. For many young students, entering high school can be an intimidating and overwhelming experience. There are so many unanswered questions, confusing hallways, and unsure beginnings. We’re creating an advice column from current seniors to make it a bit easier. It can be helpful to go into new experiences with some basic advice. In several categories, here are some tips that every new freshman should know. 

Friendship: Transitioning into high school can be a huge change in friend groups. Give each other space as you figure out high school and support one another. It’s okay if you become distant from middle school friends. Life happens, and you can always reconnect with people. As for making new friends, be open to it! Even if you aren’t actively looking for friends, being friendly and smiling can mean that you meet people you never would otherwise. Another thing to keep in mind is that you aren’t limited to only people in your grade. High school differs from middle school in this way, and many people have friends across grade levels. Do your best to talk to people, even when it’s hard. Small talk can feel excruciating at times, but it becomes worth it once your friends are made. Friendship is a crucial part of life, especially in high school. Besides, friendliness is never wasted. Even if you don’t form friendships with everyone you talk to, sometimes a small friendly act can be the support that someone needs. There are people meant for everyone. You will find yours, even if it takes time. 

Academic: One of the other important parts of high school is grades. While grades don’t hold as much importance in middle school, they do in high school. Do your best, and that’s all you can do. You can always ask your teachers for help. One crucial piece of advice is not to blow off ninth grade. It may not seem like it matters, but it impacts your GPA, grade history, and reputation. When you apply for colleges/jobs, your ninth-grade grades do matter. Find a balance between schoolwork and maintaining a healthy stress level. You just need to find a way to work hard without overworking yourself and becoming burned out. Prioritize the hardest classes first, ask for help when needed, and be communicative and polite to your teachers. It is not as difficult as you might be afraid of, but you do need to work harder at times. 

Activities: It’s important to become involved in high school. Try new clubs, even if you aren’t sure if you’ll like them. Trying something doesn’t mean that you have to be in it for all of high school. Some clubs are worth it, even for one meeting. If you’re involved in sports, make sure you know what you’re missing for games and communicate with your teachers. 

Overall: High school is only a short time in your life. If you’re struggling, know that one day you’ll wake up and it’ll be nearly finished. And if you’re having a good time, then cherish it and make sure to soak up all the good moments. It truly does go more quickly than you expect, especially after the first two years. Good luck!